I was taking the pursuer’s side in my heart. It was so easy to do.

It makes sense why you would ask that. Your enactment fell flat. You end the session and you’re not exactly sure what it was about.

This one is harder to write. Why? Because I’m a pursuer. I see you and I get you - a little too much sometimes.

We’re sitting in the wake of tragedy.

You’re like a deer in the woods. When you come out, everyone is nervous to make a wrong move - you’re so beautiful and we want you to stay.

I have a friend that has the sweetest bedtime ritual with her kids.

Feel it. Don’t ask for anything from your clients. Just be a mirror to their collective pain.

Some say this is the #1 most challenging presentation in couples work. And, yet - if you work with couples, you can’t get away from working with betrayal trauma.

The debate of the nation was happening right in front of my eyes, only this time in the confines of my therapy couch, sparks flying between a couple.

It seems to me that people who transition to business coaching out of therapy are just burnt out by therapy. And they're telling you how you too can not be a therapist.

This summer, my family obliged to the 7 year old’s request. Yes Day.

How many times have you spent way too long with one partner, trying to get something a little less blamey, a little more primary and at least a tad vulnerable?

Getting stuck in content is like trying to choose a paint color.

Somewhere along the way, EFTers got the message that in order to help couples engage with themselves and each other - they need to process negative emotions.

EFT draws therapists in like a good love story.

I was watching a tape of a supervisee of mine and the sound was very faint. I could barely make out the client or therapist words, but I could hear the cadence.

"Am I doing EFT?" What is that question, even?

What's "Move One" you ask? Well, it actually gets confusing. There's a Stage 1, Step 1 and Move 1.

I have a beautiful client that said a beautiful thing.

Intuition combined with structure equals EFT magic.